You have found the perfect companion. You have browsed the portfolio, read the bio, and decided that she is the ideal antidote to a lonely evening in New York City. You draft the text, hit send, and wait.

The reply comes back quickly. But instead of a confirmation, you receive a request: “Please provide a link to your LinkedIn profile and a photo of your ID.”

For many men, this is the moment they hesitate. You are a professional with a reputation to protect. The entire reason you are seeking a discreet engagement is to keep your private life private. Handing over your real identity to a stranger on the internet feels counterintuitive, if not downright dangerous.

Your hesitation is valid. The internet is rife with scams, and privacy is a currency you cannot afford to devalue. However, in the high-end companionship industry, a lack of screening is actually the biggest red flag of all.

We understand the fear. But we also want you to understand the logic. A rigorous verification process is not an interrogation; it is the primary firewall that separates a legitimate, high-quality agency from the chaotic and dangerous unregulated market.

The Purpose of Screening: Mutual Safety and Discretion

The screening process serves two distinct but equally important masters: the safety of the provider and the discretion of the client.

For the ladies we represent, meeting a stranger in a hotel room or private residence carries inherent physical risks. We have a non-negotiable duty to ensure they are meeting a verifiable individual, not a predator or a law enforcement officer conducting a sting.

For you, the client, screening is your guarantee of quality. Legitimate agencies screen to filter out time-wasters, dangerous individuals, and those who do not understand the etiquette of the industry. By submitting to verification, you are entering a gated community. You are ensuring that the agency you are dealing with operates professionally. An agency that does not ask who you are likely does not care who their providers are, either. That is a risk no savvy executive should take.

Here is exactly how the process works, why we ask for what we ask for, and how we keep your data secure.

Step 1: Initial Contact and Inquiry

The screening process begins the moment you send your first message. We look for etiquette, clarity, and professionalism.

When you reach out, avoid vague pleasantries like “Hi” or “You around?” Instead, provide specific details regarding your desired engagement. A proper inquiry should include:

The name of the companion you wish to see.
The specific date and time frame.
The location (neighborhood or specific hotel).
The type of appointment (social date, dinner, intimacy).

This demonstrates that you have read the website and respect our time. We also pay attention to the language you use. We operate strictly within the bounds of the law. Any solicitation of illegal acts or use of explicit street slang will result in an immediate block. We facilitate companionship, not transactions for specific sexual acts.

Step 2: The Verification Process

Once we have established what you are looking for, we need to establish who you are. This is the step that causes the most anxiety, so let’s break down the standard methods of verification and why they are secure.

We typically require at least two forms of verification from the following list:

1. LinkedIn or Professional Website

This is often the preferred method for our clientele. A LinkedIn profile with 500+ connections and a history of employment creates a “digital footprint” that is hard to fake. It tells us you are a real person with a career.

The Fear: “You will contact my boss.”
The Reality: We will never contact your workplace or view your profile while logged in (which would notify you). We simply verify that the face in the profile matches the person booking.

2. Work Email Address

Providing an email from a corporate domain allows us to verify your employment status quickly.

The Fear: “I will get spam or my IT department will see it.”
The Reality: We will send a single, discreet blank email or a generic confirmation to verify the address is active. We never mention the nature of the business in the subject line or body.

3. Photo Identification

In some cases, we may request a photo of your driver’s license or passport.

The Fear: “You will sell my ID or leak it.”
The Reality: Reputable agencies delete this data immediately after verification. We are not data brokers; we are facilitators of luxury experiences. Your ID is used strictly to match your name to your face and to ensure you are not on any industry “blacklists.”

Step 3: Screening via Provider References

If you have seen other independent providers or utilized other agencies in the past, you may be able to bypass the document verification stage.

If you have a reference, provide the provider’s name, the agency she was with (if applicable), and the approximate date of your last meeting. We will reach out to them directly.

We ask two questions:

Was he safe and respectful?
Did he honor the donation agreement without issue?

If another provider vouches for you, that carries immense weight. It is the “fast track” to a confirmed booking. This is why maintaining your reputation as a gentleman is your most valuable asset in this lifestyle.

Step 4: Finalizing the Booking (Incall vs. Outcall)

Once you are verified, we move to the logistics. This is where we finalize the location.

Outcall: This means the companion comes to you. This is the most common request for travelers staying at hotels like The Mark or The Plaza. You will need to provide your room number and the name the reservation is under. This cross-references with your ID to prove you are actually staying there.
Incall: This means you visit the companion at her location. Because this involves entering the provider’s private space, screening for incalls is often even stricter. Do not be offended if an agency requires a video call or extra verification before giving you an exact address.

Understanding Industry Terminology

During the screening and booking process, using the correct terminology signals that you are an experienced, safe client. Using the wrong terms can get you flagged as a novice or a liability.

Donation

We do not discuss “prices” for “services.” We discuss a donation for the companion’s time and company. This distinction is vital. It frames the interaction correctly—you are compensating her for the time she is carving out of her life to be with you.

GFE (Girlfriend Experience)

This refers to a style of engagement that mimics a romantic relationship. It implies intimacy, conversation, and emotional connection. If you ask for GFE, you are signaling that you want engagement, not just a physical act.

PSE (Porn Star Experience)

This is the opposite of GFE. It implies a visual, performance-based, physically intense interaction with less emphasis on conversation. Be aware that many high-end providers do not offer PSE, as they focus on the “girlfriend” aspect of companionship.

The Trust Signal: Why You Should Want to Be Screened

It is natural to feel protective of your personal information. But try to reframe the screening process not as a hurdle, but as a trust signal.

When an agency asks for verification, they are telling you that they run a tight ship. They are telling you that the woman arriving at your hotel door is safe, sane, and looks like her photos. They are demonstrating that they take security seriously—yours and theirs.

The unauthorized, “no-screening-required” market is a gamble. You might save five minutes on a text message exchange, but you risk theft, catfishing, or involvement in a police operation.

By cooperating with a professional verification process, you establish yourself as a VIP client. You gain access to a higher caliber of companion—the kind of woman who requires safety because she has as much to lose as you do.

Screening ensures that when the door closes, the outside world stays out, and you can focus entirely on the experience.